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The Hamptons Wedding Venues: What to Wear?

So your friend or relative is getting married, and you got invited to come to one of the many lovely Hamptons wedding venues. Are you ready with what you’re going to wear? Here are a few pointers. Know the color theme and motif. Check the invitation carefully for the attire, and whatever it says, stick to the theme because it’s there for a reason. It’s the look that the bride and groom wanted to see on their guests, and you’re attending to make them happy, not to disappoint them. You also do not want to stand out or steal the limelight from the couple. That said, it is usually not advisable to go for white, neons, bright red, or super-sparkly attires. You might be tempted to ask if you can come in the variations of these hues, say ecru or cream instead of white. But it’s best to play it safe, than risk getting a side-eye from the other guests and feel conscious for the rest of the party. Some couples can also be quite superstitious, so avoid black attires, unless they specifically requested it. Know the venue.The invitation might not be so specific about the attire, but another clue that will help you pick the right outfit is the venue. Is it a romantic garden? The indoors of an old-style restaurant? Or a beachside venue perhaps? Each of these venues call for different kinds of clothing ensembles. Flowy long dresses are welcome for the first, but perhaps not so in the second. As for the beachside venue, dresses made of lycra or jersey may not be advisable as they will pack sweat. If your friends are getting married in a church, know that some might have a stricter though unwritten dress code – for instance, mini-skirts and excessive cleavage may not be so welcome. Know the season. Finally, dress according to the weather. That said, layer on if you know it’s going to be an autumn or winter wedding. Find a stylish blazer, hat, and muffs, and wear tights underneath your skirt if you like. And if it’s a spring or summer wedding, choose fabrics that allow your skin to breathe amid the heat and humidity. In the end, the key rule for picking your wedding attire is to feel great about yourself while also honoring the love between your friends. Remember, you will be an amazing wedding guest if you feel comfortable in the first place.


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